6 Things That You Should Not Care About | Divya Toshniwal |

We have heard and read a lot about what we should do to live a happy and successful life but seldom we get to hear what we should not. The 'should nots' are as important as the shoulds and here is a list of 6 such things that you should not care about.

1. People who don't care about you. How often have you found yourself on the giving position and how often have you felt that you have been exhausted of giving everything in a relationship and never receiving back. You think you should give more to attract more attention but those people have just taken you for granted. The more you care the less they'll care and take you for granted. Start ignoring them and focus on yourself. You need to be your first priority.

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2. Toxic people. People who are negative about everything in life are really toxic. No matter how good things are they always manage to find something bad in it. being around such people may make you negative about life and will drain out the positivity in you like a parasite. Don't let bitter unhappy people drag you down to their level. Instead, use their behavior as an example of how not to behave and be grateful you are nothing like them. Just stay away from them and don't let their negative energy drain you.

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3. Age. Age is just a number. It doesn't matter if people say you are too young to achieve something or too old to learn something, just don't believe them. The moon and the sun both rise when it's their time to do so.  It's never too late or too soon. Do what you believe you should.

4. Your Past.  Your past has made you what you are today. No doubt its been a hell of a journey and in that journey, you may have made innumerable mistakes, the burden of some you may be carrying till today. But past is in the past, don't let it swallow your future. Don't let yesterday disturb your today to spoil your tomorrow. Your past does shape you a lot but you don't have to carry the baggage around everywhere.

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5.Society's beauty standards. The fair may not be lovely and slim may not be fit. Beauty has a different meaning for each individual and every individual is different. Accept the differences and don't compare yourself to false standards of beauty that the society has imposed on you.  There are so many different forms of beauty. Don't let them decline yours ever.

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6.What others think. No matter what you do, someone somewhere will be disappointed in you. This ' Log Kya Kahenge?' has spoiled more lives and dreams than any other obstacle. You can never make everyone like you. Just do your best and don't bother what people think.

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Divya